A Nigerian lady has caused a stir on social media after sharing her controversial views on relationships, asserting that men who possess cooking skills are potential “red flags” for women. Her opinion has sparked a lively debate among social media users, with many either laughing at her remarks or vehemently disagreeing with her stance.
The viral video, posted by TikTok creator iyetiktok1, shows the lady giving advice directly to women, cautioning them about men who are adept in the kitchen. She explained that men who can cook dishes such as ogbono soup, egusi, rice and stew, or even jollof rice, may rarely be committed to the idea of marriage or long-term relationships.
She elaborated on her viewpoint, saying:
“Girls, I dey tell una, any man that can cook is a red flag. Man wey fit cook ogbono, egusi, rice and stew, jollof rice… If you’re in that kind relationship, he can never marry you. Wetin you sabi wey him no sabi?”
According to her, a man who is independent—someone who cooks for himself, does his own laundry, and manages his personal affairs without assistance—is less likely to feel the need to formalize a relationship through marriage. She insisted that women should be cautious of such men because their independence may make them less invested in long-term commitment or domestic responsibilities traditionally associated with marriage.
The video quickly went viral, garnering thousands of views, likes, and comments on TikTok. Many Nigerians found her statements humorous and shared their own interpretations and personal experiences. Others, however, criticized her perspective, arguing that a man’s ability to cook should be seen as a positive trait rather than a “red flag.” The video has sparked discussions about gender roles, expectations in relationships, and how independence is perceived in Nigerian society.
As the conversation rages on social media, netizens have continued to debate whether the ability to cook is truly indicative of a man’s relationship intentions, with some supporting her view and others mocking it for being overly stereotypical. The video has also prompted numerous memes and humorous reactions, further fueling its viral status.
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