A life coach has shared his professional opinion on the widely discussed altercation between controversial social critic, VeryDarkMan, and popular comedian Mr. Jollof, which recently went viral after occurring on a commercial flight.
The incident has dominated social media headlines, with numerous users sharing video clips showing the heated exchange between the two figures, sparking debates about public conduct, accountability, and the dangers of online feuds spilling into real life.[/b]
While the exact circumstances leading to the clash are still being examined, the life coach offered his perspective on how the situation could have been handled differently to prevent escalation.
Life Coach Reacts To VeryDarkMan’s Clash With Mr Jollof
The life coach, identified by his social media handle @ItsShola on X (formerly Twitter), commented that VeryDarkMan could have avoided confrontation entirely by ignoring Mr. Jollof upon seeing him on the same flight. He emphasized that exercising restraint and emotional control in public spaces is a mark of maturity and personal growth.
In his tweet, @ItsShola described VeryDarkMan’s actions as unnecessary and disruptive, urging him to work on improving his approach to conflict resolution. The tweet reads: “VDM messed up tho. You confronted a man on a plane over online dramas? Least he could have done after seeing Mr Jollof on the same plane was ignore him. That’s how a nuisance moves. He should do better.”
The life coach further stressed the importance of separating online disputes from real-life interactions, noting that failing to do so can damage personal reputation, escalate conflict, and even lead to legal consequences.
It’s noteworthy that VeryDarkMan has a history of online controversies and public spats. Previously, he was embroiled in a heated exchange with billionaire entrepreneur Blord, following the release of a video from a Chinese factory showing older iPhone XR models being remolded to resemble the newly launched iPhone 17 Pro Max.
In that earlier online clash, VeryDarkMan accused Blord of selling ‘cloned’ phones at prices ranging from ₦450,000 to ₦3 million, alleging that Nigerian consumers were being misled and defrauded. The disagreement escalated further when Blord’s Instagram account, which boasts over 3 million followers, was temporarily disabled amid the controversy.
Observers note that the incident on the flight marks a continuation of VeryDarkMan’s pattern of allowing online disputes to influence his real-life actions, and experts have recommended that he adopt strategies to manage conflicts calmly and privately, especially in public settings.
See the life coach’s tweet below for reference and guidance shared with the public on handling such conflicts responsibly…
