Bright Okpocha, widely known as Basketmouth, has called on couples across society to exercise greater discretion and responsibility when dealing with marital challenges, stressing that airing personal conflicts publicly can have harmful consequences for both the individuals involved and the wider community.
Speaking candidly, Basketmouth highlighted the growing tendency for couples to expose each other’s weaknesses on social media, describing such behaviour as damaging and unnecessary. “We can do better as a society,” he said, urging people to protect the dignity and privacy of both parties in a relationship, especially when tensions rise.
Reflecting on his own experiences, the comedian shared that he faced marital difficulties that eventually led to divorce, but he deliberately avoided publicizing his struggles online. “I also had my own marital issues, but I never came online to talk about it.” he said, noting that keeping private matters offline helps preserve respect and prevents unnecessary judgment or gossip from the public.
The Importance of Privacy for Children and Families
Basketmouth emphasised that publicly exposing marital disputes can negatively impact children, who may face embarrassment or bullying from peers. He stressed that parents should always consider the emotional well-being of their children before sharing private conflicts publicly. “Parents should consider their children when calling each other out online because the children will be shamed by their friends who have access to social media,” he added, warning that such exposure can leave lasting psychological effects on young minds.
He further advised that quiet conflict resolution not only protects children but also sets a positive example of maturity and responsibility in relationships, demonstrating how adults can handle disputes without involving the public or social media.
Guidance in Light of Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko’s Marital Crisis
The comedian specifically referenced the ongoing public scrutiny surrounding the marital issues of actress Regina Daniels and Senator Ned Nwoko, urging both parties to handle the situation with discretion, maturity, and accountability. He highlighted that public disputes can escalate tensions unnecessarily and create challenges for everyone involved, including family members and children.
Basketmouth encouraged adults to focus on constructive problem-solving behind closed doors rather than seeking validation or public attention online. He suggested that when couples maintain privacy and avoid airing grievances, society benefits as children grow up in a more stable and respectful environment, and personal relationships are less likely to be tarnished by external opinions.
Watch the video below for Basketmouth’s full message…
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— Basket Mouth (@basket_mouth) November 10, 2025